Yesterday we celebrated Christmas with friends and family. The sun was shining, we rode horses, played games both outside and inside, opened gifts and celebrated the true gift of Christmas! Today it is a totally different day. It is colder and a bit dreary, the food is not as tempting (yet is still stored in my belly) and most of my family have left our home. Today may be a different day but the one thing that remains, is the reason we celebrate this season ... the gift of our Saviour Jesus Christ! I pray each person reading this blog has opened this gift of our Saviour and received Him into your lives. Receive the gift and hold it close! Grace to all who enter and receive the gift! May this be the best present you ever receive!
"And they will call Him Emmanuel - which means God with us" Matthew 1:23
Merry Christmas!
Denise
Friday, December 26, 2008
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Oh That Hurts
There are times when I really hurt... physically, mentally, socially, emotionally and yes, spiritually. Yesterday, my oldest son, Hunter was "crunchin' abs" and today, he keeps reminding me how much he hurts physically.... "no pain, no gain , mom". While that may have some truth to his training right now, there are threads of truth to that old statement in the emotional realm as well. Thanksgiving evening (actually Fri. morning at 2:30am) the world lost a very special young girl, named Alexa Rohrbach. After struggling for the past 9 of her 11 years of life,the Lord allowed her to come home. I cannot express the emotional pain I am feeling as I am thinking of and praying for her family. They have been such pillars of strength spiritually and emotionally. The heavens opened up as she entered the gates and into the Father's arms. She is now cancer free and her health restored... her gain.
While reading this morning, in John 11, (the story of Lazarus), Mary cried out to Jesus and said, "Lord, if you had been here my brother would not have died." I began weeping and crying out myself, "Lord, you are always here but this pain is like a heavy weight resting on my heart. (I just saw Alexa on Mon. while in Atlanta). I hurt for parents who have children dying, I hurt for friends, whose parents are dying. Lord, mentally I know you are here, but it is really hard to deal with life's pains". Then I read further in verse 35, "Then Jesus wept". Jesus wept just like I have wept. Jesus knows our pain, is in control and understands the gain. There is pain and there is gain; we have to grab it and trust in Him as Lord despite life's circumstances. Rejoice in the Lord despite pain. Trust in Him with all our hearts and believe He will direct our paths! Now that is some weight I'd like to gain.
Lord, you are Lord when........... now you fill in the blank.
Blessings my friends,
Denise
While reading this morning, in John 11, (the story of Lazarus), Mary cried out to Jesus and said, "Lord, if you had been here my brother would not have died." I began weeping and crying out myself, "Lord, you are always here but this pain is like a heavy weight resting on my heart. (I just saw Alexa on Mon. while in Atlanta). I hurt for parents who have children dying, I hurt for friends, whose parents are dying. Lord, mentally I know you are here, but it is really hard to deal with life's pains". Then I read further in verse 35, "Then Jesus wept". Jesus wept just like I have wept. Jesus knows our pain, is in control and understands the gain. There is pain and there is gain; we have to grab it and trust in Him as Lord despite life's circumstances. Rejoice in the Lord despite pain. Trust in Him with all our hearts and believe He will direct our paths! Now that is some weight I'd like to gain.
Lord, you are Lord when........... now you fill in the blank.
Blessings my friends,
Denise
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Whatever!
"Whatever".... Man, what a great saying! ... I have a tendency to say it when frustrated or ready to quit. I also hear it from the kids I teach when they want to finish a conversation due to frustration. "WHATEVERRRRRRR" can you hear it?
This morning however, I heard it from God. I was crying out to God saying I can't do this teaching job anymore, and He said, "whatever you ask in my name I will give to you" "Ask for my help, my leadership Denise, and I will give it to you" Luke 18:27. I said, I can't because I am too tired, and God said,"I will give you rest in what ever situation you are facing" Matthew 11:28-30. So I went on a bit longer in this conversation with God. I said, I thought I was able but I am not the one for this job, and God said, "I will supply all your needs" Phil. 4:19 For nothing is impossible with me Denise, trust me, "For apart from Me, you can do nothing" John 15:5 You see God gave me a peace about today and I am not going to lose it .... at least for today that is. God is able, sufficient, powerful, present and truly in control. So, whatever you and I are facing, we have a choice to make. We can give it to Him, trust He will work all things together according to His plan or we can sit in our worlds of frustration and scream "WHATEVERRRR" and remain there for awhile, going nowhere. I have a reminder now fixed in my mind and so do you........ Go for it today and trust in His truths, For I can do all things through Christ in WHATEVERRRRRR situation I face, for He gives me strength and He offers it to you as well! Phil. 4:13.
Have a great week! Denise
This morning however, I heard it from God. I was crying out to God saying I can't do this teaching job anymore, and He said, "whatever you ask in my name I will give to you" "Ask for my help, my leadership Denise, and I will give it to you" Luke 18:27. I said, I can't because I am too tired, and God said,"I will give you rest in what ever situation you are facing" Matthew 11:28-30. So I went on a bit longer in this conversation with God. I said, I thought I was able but I am not the one for this job, and God said, "I will supply all your needs" Phil. 4:19 For nothing is impossible with me Denise, trust me, "For apart from Me, you can do nothing" John 15:5 You see God gave me a peace about today and I am not going to lose it .... at least for today that is. God is able, sufficient, powerful, present and truly in control. So, whatever you and I are facing, we have a choice to make. We can give it to Him, trust He will work all things together according to His plan or we can sit in our worlds of frustration and scream "WHATEVERRRR" and remain there for awhile, going nowhere. I have a reminder now fixed in my mind and so do you........ Go for it today and trust in His truths, For I can do all things through Christ in WHATEVERRRRRR situation I face, for He gives me strength and He offers it to you as well! Phil. 4:13.
Have a great week! Denise
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Camping 101
What a great experience we just had at the Lodges at Eagle's Nest in Banner Elk. (http://www.eaglesnestbe.com/ ) I would say it was a camping experience mixed with an American Indian wanna be atmosphere. We started the weekend with a mean game of beach volleyball (yes, I did say beach and we were in the Mtns. close to 4000 ft.) against our dear friends the William's family. Next after beating the William's family we moved on to bigger and much rougher terrain. We spent over an hour of off road 4 wheelin'. This was so much fun but not so good on the back. Once we arrived at what seemed to be @ 5000 ft. we stood, then sat, then just rested as we watched the clouds move across the Mtns. What a sight. BUT, it was no where near the end of this fab day. We made our way back to the TEPEE Village (http://www.tipi.com/) to get ready for our Full Moon Cruise. How much fun was that! Over 40 people cruised to the top ridge where there was a roaring fire pit, ribs baking and BYOB and side dish... all of which was accompanied by the Lord's beautiful Full Moon! To conclude the night, the kids and I jumped into the hot tub (which resembled cascading water falls into a pond) and talked .... that is such a rare thing among adolescents, but not at Eagle's Nest! What a night!
The following day was just as great, except for the fact the Hammond family was defeated 2-1 in a rematch by the fierce and dedicated William's family. Kenny and I rode horses across the beautiful rolling Mtns. and fab. trails, the kids were engaged in archery and shot gun practice. (I think Colton and Miles spent at least 4 hrs. practicing target shooting throughout the weekend) and the meals were fresh and always ready for a 'smore. So, late Sun. afternoon we knew it was time to go. All good things must come to an end. No wait, I hate that saying ....... All good things can wait for another day! That is true at Eagle's Nest,but, with God's presence, you never have to wait. He is always here and available today!
OK, so my new day is actually tomorrow. I leave in the morning, with close to 200 Middle School kids for Windy Gap. My bags are packed, my cool-o-meter is in check and I believe, we are going to have the times of our lives .... spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and ahhhh yes, mentally. I need your prayers, as leaving my farm and Kenny/Colton will be tough for 3 days, but hey, they can muck a stall like no one else! It should be good for their bonding, don't you think?! But seriously, I do need prayer, as there has been a lot of adjustment with working, scheduling, sports, personal play time, family, farm and my health.
So, it is off to "camp" yet again, I pray you find God in everything you do this week! I will look for His presence and little bits of fun up in them hills, you do the same OK!
Love to you all; get a lot of God this week, He is really COOL and Oh soooo Powerful! He wanted me to remind you of that!
Blessings friends,
Denise
The following day was just as great, except for the fact the Hammond family was defeated 2-1 in a rematch by the fierce and dedicated William's family. Kenny and I rode horses across the beautiful rolling Mtns. and fab. trails, the kids were engaged in archery and shot gun practice. (I think Colton and Miles spent at least 4 hrs. practicing target shooting throughout the weekend) and the meals were fresh and always ready for a 'smore. So, late Sun. afternoon we knew it was time to go. All good things must come to an end. No wait, I hate that saying ....... All good things can wait for another day! That is true at Eagle's Nest,but, with God's presence, you never have to wait. He is always here and available today!
OK, so my new day is actually tomorrow. I leave in the morning, with close to 200 Middle School kids for Windy Gap. My bags are packed, my cool-o-meter is in check and I believe, we are going to have the times of our lives .... spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and ahhhh yes, mentally. I need your prayers, as leaving my farm and Kenny/Colton will be tough for 3 days, but hey, they can muck a stall like no one else! It should be good for their bonding, don't you think?! But seriously, I do need prayer, as there has been a lot of adjustment with working, scheduling, sports, personal play time, family, farm and my health.
So, it is off to "camp" yet again, I pray you find God in everything you do this week! I will look for His presence and little bits of fun up in them hills, you do the same OK!
Love to you all; get a lot of God this week, He is really COOL and Oh soooo Powerful! He wanted me to remind you of that!
Blessings friends,
Denise
Monday, September 8, 2008
Writing to make it stick!
When I catch my boys doing something that they clearly know not to do, I have them write. Mostly for repetition purposes, but also, as a punishment. This is to serve as a reminder to follow the rules or pay the consequences. So, I tell you this because Colton is supposed to ask before logging on to our computers, well, ooops, he "forgot" and was playing a game on the web. As a mom, who takes her job seriously, I felt it was important to remind him in a way that he would not "forget" in the future. So Colton had to write (30 times), "I will ask before logging on to the computer". I have this writing in front of me now as I write in this blog, so that, I may be reminded to ask God what He would have me do in the circumstances that I face each day. I might even write God a note saying, "I will ask you Lord, what you would have me do today, before I begin my day". I might write that 40 times just to be reminded.
So what about you? What do you need to be reminded of for the days ahead? Go to the Father and ask for His leadership on that one!
Blessings to all!
Denise
So what about you? What do you need to be reminded of for the days ahead? Go to the Father and ask for His leadership on that one!
Blessings to all!
Denise
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Back to school
This is a bitter sweet time of the year! My boys, as well as many other of extended "kids" are starting school for the 08-08 year this week. It is exciting yet a bit scary, a bit mysterious yet energizing. I see this beginning very similar to many who claim Christ for the first time. God is mysterious yet consistant and never changes, He is everywhere yet extremely personal. We serve and follow an awesome Savior!
I pray in advance for all of our kids and their teachers. May the Lord bless and grow each and every one of these professionals and students. That prayer includes me as well. I have accepted a position at Charlotte Christian MS teaching and designing a new curriculum. The current PE program is reshaping itself and will become "The Health Promotions Dept." if I have anything to say about it. Please pray with me as I take this leap of faith in my new adventures!
Blessings and here's to good health!
Denise
I pray in advance for all of our kids and their teachers. May the Lord bless and grow each and every one of these professionals and students. That prayer includes me as well. I have accepted a position at Charlotte Christian MS teaching and designing a new curriculum. The current PE program is reshaping itself and will become "The Health Promotions Dept." if I have anything to say about it. Please pray with me as I take this leap of faith in my new adventures!
Blessings and here's to good health!
Denise
Saturday, August 2, 2008
This summer has been quite an experience. The Lord has taken our family on quite a few adventures this summer and I'd like to share what I have witnessed.
First, God showed me what a few days without communication feels like. While getting really comfortable in my early summer routine, (which meant little study time and a prayer style that mimics an ADD woman on stimulants) I found myself in a rut. My rut was a bit like the following..... Wake up whenever, watch a bit of TV, ride, clean and feed horses, farm clean up, fun at the pool with the kids, traveling, working out as little as possible, party party party and then sleep and do it all again next week. This routine is making me tired! In that realization, it hit me; where is God in all of this summer schedule? He is my Energy source and my sustainer, no wonder I am so tired! All play and no God time makes Denise a very worn out chick! Well, thankfully, He never left me, I just forgot to ask Him how He wanted me to live out summer fun. I see our God as a huge, buff, creative, Personal Trainer.... filled with Energy,wisdom, experience, knowledge and adventure. Who wouldn't want to hang out with that?
So here I sit on Sat. night contemplating my final weeks of summer and I want more from my close and loving, fun-filled creator.
What are those plans You have for me Lord? You say they are to prosper me and to give me a future and a hope (Jer. 29:11) In the Psalms, often I read about us making plans and You determining our steps- our path. We are to commit our plans to You and trust that they will succeed. So, I guess once we commit to You then we must trust in Your deliverance. That my friends is FAITH! Our faith is based on being sure of what we hope for and certain for what we do not see (Heb.11:1). We may not know the future but it is in His hands and divine plan ... these are quite powerful and awesome promises Lord! hummmm/ pause/ think .... in summary I see it like this: Future Plans, Commitment, Trust, Confident Expectation of Deliverance, Faith and Hope............. so, what shall I hope for next? School to start maybe????
Have a great week everyone and I pray you too have a great rest of the summer with our God!
Blessings, Denise
First, God showed me what a few days without communication feels like. While getting really comfortable in my early summer routine, (which meant little study time and a prayer style that mimics an ADD woman on stimulants) I found myself in a rut. My rut was a bit like the following..... Wake up whenever, watch a bit of TV, ride, clean and feed horses, farm clean up, fun at the pool with the kids, traveling, working out as little as possible, party party party and then sleep and do it all again next week. This routine is making me tired! In that realization, it hit me; where is God in all of this summer schedule? He is my Energy source and my sustainer, no wonder I am so tired! All play and no God time makes Denise a very worn out chick! Well, thankfully, He never left me, I just forgot to ask Him how He wanted me to live out summer fun. I see our God as a huge, buff, creative, Personal Trainer.... filled with Energy,wisdom, experience, knowledge and adventure. Who wouldn't want to hang out with that?
So here I sit on Sat. night contemplating my final weeks of summer and I want more from my close and loving, fun-filled creator.
What are those plans You have for me Lord? You say they are to prosper me and to give me a future and a hope (Jer. 29:11) In the Psalms, often I read about us making plans and You determining our steps- our path. We are to commit our plans to You and trust that they will succeed. So, I guess once we commit to You then we must trust in Your deliverance. That my friends is FAITH! Our faith is based on being sure of what we hope for and certain for what we do not see (Heb.11:1). We may not know the future but it is in His hands and divine plan ... these are quite powerful and awesome promises Lord! hummmm/ pause/ think .... in summary I see it like this: Future Plans, Commitment, Trust, Confident Expectation of Deliverance, Faith and Hope............. so, what shall I hope for next? School to start maybe????
Have a great week everyone and I pray you too have a great rest of the summer with our God!
Blessings, Denise
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
star so bright
Just a quick note to remind you to look up!
While Kenny and I were shaving our donkey last night, it occurred to me that I rarely look up when I am busy or preoccupied with a project. We were so enthralled with this task that we almost missed the amazing picture above our heads. The sky was splattered with glistening stars and a bright moon. It wasn't until Hannah (my donkey) raised her sweet head that I too gazed above and sat back in awe. God's amazing creations are always present and always jaw dropping. When busy, know that it is He that will direct the plans that we so often make. May I suggest that you sit quietly over this summer and soak in the artistic beauty and love of Christ.
Blessings,
Denise
While Kenny and I were shaving our donkey last night, it occurred to me that I rarely look up when I am busy or preoccupied with a project. We were so enthralled with this task that we almost missed the amazing picture above our heads. The sky was splattered with glistening stars and a bright moon. It wasn't until Hannah (my donkey) raised her sweet head that I too gazed above and sat back in awe. God's amazing creations are always present and always jaw dropping. When busy, know that it is He that will direct the plans that we so often make. May I suggest that you sit quietly over this summer and soak in the artistic beauty and love of Christ.
Blessings,
Denise
Thursday, May 8, 2008
All the world loves a stage!
I am speaking tonight at Providence High School and have been asking the Lord to open more doors for speaking and teaching. Please keep this in your prayers as well, as this is such a passion of mine!
As I prepared for tonight's speaking engagement, I was struck with how difficult this message would be without expressing my faith. The message is about Standing Up to today's cultural messages. After leaving my Bible study group of Bible thumpin' women, I felt equipped yet still a bit challenged. I prayed for an opening to this message. I passed a house that was, well, let's say it had no curb appeal and was a bit run down. The sign read, "FOR SALE" - "Gorgeous inside!" Then it had a "Sale Pending" sign attached to it...... it was sold! Somebody took enough time to investigate the inside and decided it was worth it! Now, I ask you this, which would you rather, Gorgeous outside or INSIDE? I personally would rather live in a home that is beautiful on the INSIDE, than just a pretty outside, with curb appeal. How many times do we live our lives, overly concerned with the outward appearance yet spend little time on our insides.
There was my opening/ my speech, I had been given a gift from God to share. I pray this generation takes hold of that thought and changes the future!
How about you? Spend as much time as you can listening to God's perspective, I promise you, you will hear His truth whispered in your ears. You might be amazed at what you hear. He thinks His child (insert your name) is simply gorgeous and beautifully made!
Take every thought captive and make it obedient to Christ!
Blessings,
Denise
I am speaking tonight at Providence High School and have been asking the Lord to open more doors for speaking and teaching. Please keep this in your prayers as well, as this is such a passion of mine!
As I prepared for tonight's speaking engagement, I was struck with how difficult this message would be without expressing my faith. The message is about Standing Up to today's cultural messages. After leaving my Bible study group of Bible thumpin' women, I felt equipped yet still a bit challenged. I prayed for an opening to this message. I passed a house that was, well, let's say it had no curb appeal and was a bit run down. The sign read, "FOR SALE" - "Gorgeous inside!" Then it had a "Sale Pending" sign attached to it...... it was sold! Somebody took enough time to investigate the inside and decided it was worth it! Now, I ask you this, which would you rather, Gorgeous outside or INSIDE? I personally would rather live in a home that is beautiful on the INSIDE, than just a pretty outside, with curb appeal. How many times do we live our lives, overly concerned with the outward appearance yet spend little time on our insides.
There was my opening/ my speech, I had been given a gift from God to share. I pray this generation takes hold of that thought and changes the future!
How about you? Spend as much time as you can listening to God's perspective, I promise you, you will hear His truth whispered in your ears. You might be amazed at what you hear. He thinks His child (insert your name) is simply gorgeous and beautifully made!
Take every thought captive and make it obedient to Christ!
Blessings,
Denise
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Happy Birthday Colton: here are your baby goats!
It was 2:15 Sat. afternoon and time to go our first of 4 games this weekend, so, I asked Colton to run to the barn to check on Mary before we left. You see, Mary was looking mighty pregnant in the early morning hours and we knew she was ready to deliver soon. Mary is one of our African Pygmy Goats. Martha is also preganat but isn't due for another week.
Two mins. later I heard Colton screaming and running towards the house. Colton was in shock over what he saw. Mary was in the process of delivering her first of 4 baby goats. Yes, we are the proud parents of 4 new "kids". This was quite an experience and we documented the entire National Geographical experience. I have attached the rated G version pictures. I praise God for His miraculous design. Mary instinctively took over, cleaned and nursed each one as they shivered in the cool environment and were brought into a barnyard of love and curiosity!
What a great gift to giver to my little vet Colton on his 9th Birthday! Isn't God great!
Two mins. later I heard Colton screaming and running towards the house. Colton was in shock over what he saw. Mary was in the process of delivering her first of 4 baby goats. Yes, we are the proud parents of 4 new "kids". This was quite an experience and we documented the entire National Geographical experience. I have attached the rated G version pictures. I praise God for His miraculous design. Mary instinctively took over, cleaned and nursed each one as they shivered in the cool environment and were brought into a barnyard of love and curiosity!
What a great gift to giver to my little vet Colton on his 9th Birthday! Isn't God great!
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
I haven't had much to say and have been reminded lately by a few of you. So,I will begin with a huge Happy Easter for He has Risen indeed!
I do have a fun praise report regarding my youngest son, Colton. You know, the one who burnt a hole in my floor recently while testing out fire and water. (See Jan. blog for a detailed account!) Colton is a new team member to Old Providence Baseball and this Tues. was his first game. While watching, Kenny and I exchanged glances as if to say, "OK Colton's up to bat, PRAY!" If we decided to pray aloud, it would sound like this, "PLLLLEEEAAAASSSEEE Lord give him his moment, give him confidence" .....
The 2nd and 3rd bases were loaded and Colton hit a home-run! "Colton hit a home-run" I kept screaming with my hands across my heart then raised in the air then across my mouth then in the air. I was CRAZY excited.... nothin' like meeting the team for the first time with all my volume! Oh, I was loud I admit it! In times like this I think I have been going to the wrong church all my life. I need to be in a Pentecostal or AME Zion church... I would fit right in and be oh so at home.
Praise You Lord for answering our heartfelt yet silent prayers!
The Word says, when we pray we need not wonder if He has heard our prayers, believe and allow Him to work it all together. Furthermore, it is all about the small stuff. Keeping God in everything we do and think, allows us to see Him in everything we cannot do or even imagine. He is in it all and truly cares about it all; you see it is all about His BIG plan.
Trust in it because we are all apart of it and He truly loves each and every one of His children. Let's love Him back in the best we we can! Communicate and Trust!
Blessings to you all. Denise
I do have a fun praise report regarding my youngest son, Colton. You know, the one who burnt a hole in my floor recently while testing out fire and water. (See Jan. blog for a detailed account!) Colton is a new team member to Old Providence Baseball and this Tues. was his first game. While watching, Kenny and I exchanged glances as if to say, "OK Colton's up to bat, PRAY!" If we decided to pray aloud, it would sound like this, "PLLLLEEEAAAASSSEEE Lord give him his moment, give him confidence" .....
The 2nd and 3rd bases were loaded and Colton hit a home-run! "Colton hit a home-run" I kept screaming with my hands across my heart then raised in the air then across my mouth then in the air. I was CRAZY excited.... nothin' like meeting the team for the first time with all my volume! Oh, I was loud I admit it! In times like this I think I have been going to the wrong church all my life. I need to be in a Pentecostal or AME Zion church... I would fit right in and be oh so at home.
Praise You Lord for answering our heartfelt yet silent prayers!
The Word says, when we pray we need not wonder if He has heard our prayers, believe and allow Him to work it all together. Furthermore, it is all about the small stuff. Keeping God in everything we do and think, allows us to see Him in everything we cannot do or even imagine. He is in it all and truly cares about it all; you see it is all about His BIG plan.
Trust in it because we are all apart of it and He truly loves each and every one of His children. Let's love Him back in the best we we can! Communicate and Trust!
Blessings to you all. Denise
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Old People's Riding Club
I attended a meeting this afternoon in a tack room off the side of a barn. This is the OPRA (Old People's Riding Club) chapter that is just getting started in this part of NC. The meeting started just as a powerful storm was rolling in. The thunder, lightning and intense rain-fall made me (secretly) a bit scared. Knowing the power of a storm can be a bit unsettling, however, knowing the benefits of this storm made me very content inside. Oh how we need this rain!
During times like this, we can all make the parallels to our lives with regards to the "storms" we have experienced in our lives. Sometimes we have to wait on the storm to pass. Sometimes we must pass through the storm or allow the storm to pass through us, wiping out whatever was in its path. Sometimes we are immediately delivered by the storm and never have to endure the rainfall, but this option; one we might pray for, does not always teach us much or grow our character. Regardless of the storms in your life, I pray you have the endurance to either run through or withstand the intensity of the trials. Hold on tight, it can bring great joy and growth ahead!
Please continue to pray for my horse Decaza, as we are beginning the conditioning and riding process and are praying he does not relapse.
Have a wonderful week!
He is alive indeed!
Denise
During times like this, we can all make the parallels to our lives with regards to the "storms" we have experienced in our lives. Sometimes we have to wait on the storm to pass. Sometimes we must pass through the storm or allow the storm to pass through us, wiping out whatever was in its path. Sometimes we are immediately delivered by the storm and never have to endure the rainfall, but this option; one we might pray for, does not always teach us much or grow our character. Regardless of the storms in your life, I pray you have the endurance to either run through or withstand the intensity of the trials. Hold on tight, it can bring great joy and growth ahead!
Please continue to pray for my horse Decaza, as we are beginning the conditioning and riding process and are praying he does not relapse.
Have a wonderful week!
He is alive indeed!
Denise
Monday, March 10, 2008
Unlike my husband, I love this day light savings thing. It is 6:50pm and it is blazing sunshine in my windows. My boys played catch outside until dinner and my horses grazed on the fresh grass. Ahh Spring is coming! New growth, new weather, new fun activities, new flowers, new beginnings. I love being and feeling renewed! It is like going to a spa and getting a facial and a massage. One time my friend Melissa and I went to the Grove Park Spa in Ashville, NC, and we wanted to be really new, really refreshed, so we stayed at the spa for 8 hrs. Believe me when I tell you this, we would have remained at that spa for another 8 hrs. if we didn't have to be at another retreat just mins. away. The Lord reminds us that we are new creations once we cling to Him. His power refreshes and restores us so that we are renewed everyday despite what we experience. Now who doesn't want a new start sometimes? I know I do. I challenge each of you as I take this challenge myself... begin each day by standing upright, firmly grounded in His peace and say aloud, as if you were face to face with God;
"I need a new start today Lord, in you I know that is possible. Today, I choose You Lord, please renew me this day"
I bet there will be a lot of shiny new faces and attitudes strutting His glory around as we step out into Spring!
Love to all, let me know how this challenge goes! I bet He will do amazing things through all of us, a matter of fact, I bet He has already begun!
Denise
"I need a new start today Lord, in you I know that is possible. Today, I choose You Lord, please renew me this day"
I bet there will be a lot of shiny new faces and attitudes strutting His glory around as we step out into Spring!
Love to all, let me know how this challenge goes! I bet He will do amazing things through all of us, a matter of fact, I bet He has already begun!
Denise
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
Stop the maddness!
I have received so many responses to the latest blog. The question I now propose is, which cookie is the ultimate Girl Scout cookie? As for me and my son Hunter, we polished off a few Samoa's tonight and let me tell ya, I do not do guilt when it comes to these bad boys! Colton's favorite cookie is yet to be determined, as he says he first has to try them all to make a good decision. That's Colton for ya!
Have a great week,
Denise
Have a great week,
Denise
Friday, February 29, 2008
On My Honor
What a great day I had today. I had one of those all by myself days.... until 2:30pm. My sweet and quiet day with my animals was interrupted by 10 laughing, screaming with joy and excitement GIRL SCOUTS!! To share this wonderful farm with these young girls was such a treat. I actually believe if I invited them for a sleep-over they all would have yelled YES without any hesitation.
I was so glad to have this opportunity to share what God has so richly blessed us with. I didn't ask them to recite the Girl scout pledge but, I believe I can remember it from my days as a GS. "On my honor, I will try to serve God, my country, mankind and live by the Girl scout law" I think that's it. I wonder if they still recite that? Let's analyze it shall we. On my HONOR ... what is honor? Is it truth, honesty, sincerity... I believe that is a taught and caught trait. I will try.... OK give it your best shot and keep trying, never give up. To serve God .... serve not be served by God, just SERVE ....... my country, and what a country we live in filled with such opportunities........ mankind ... seve each other as if we were serving the Lord. What you have done for the least of them you have done for me says the Lord.
and live by the Girl Scout law. We cannot live by the Law, we all fall short and that is why we have the grace of God sent to us through Jesus Christ!
See, I can make anything sing the Christian song in which we can all march along.
Have a great weekend and eat a Samoa or Thin Mint in honor of our Girl Scouts!
Denise
I was so glad to have this opportunity to share what God has so richly blessed us with. I didn't ask them to recite the Girl scout pledge but, I believe I can remember it from my days as a GS. "On my honor, I will try to serve God, my country, mankind and live by the Girl scout law" I think that's it. I wonder if they still recite that? Let's analyze it shall we. On my HONOR ... what is honor? Is it truth, honesty, sincerity... I believe that is a taught and caught trait. I will try.... OK give it your best shot and keep trying, never give up. To serve God .... serve not be served by God, just SERVE ....... my country, and what a country we live in filled with such opportunities........ mankind ... seve each other as if we were serving the Lord. What you have done for the least of them you have done for me says the Lord.
and live by the Girl Scout law. We cannot live by the Law, we all fall short and that is why we have the grace of God sent to us through Jesus Christ!
See, I can make anything sing the Christian song in which we can all march along.
Have a great weekend and eat a Samoa or Thin Mint in honor of our Girl Scouts!
Denise
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
GROW!
I really hate when I am wrong. No seriously, it is one of my "issues" that the Lord keeps reminding me of lately. You see when I am wrong, I have this tendency to try to make the wrong right and will work so very hard to reverse the wrong that it can be exhausting. The very thing that I find wrong the Lord makes right. In these moments is when I get the chance to grow. (I should be 25 feet tall and 6oo lbs with all the growing God has allowed me). Jesus taught that in all things we have to allow Him to be in control, prune where necessary, and grow! His word says, He is the vine and we are the branches and apart from Him we can do nothing. (John 15:5)
A woman in one of my small groups (TLC) told me of a story and I'd like to share it with you. She grew up always feeling different, small and a bit "behind the scenes" as she puts it. She never wanted to be the one people saw. As an adult, she kept wondering why she couldn't overcome her struggle with weight and her identity as it related to her weight. She kept saying, "All I want to do is shrink!" One Easter Sunday her Pastor invited people to come forward and nail their burdens to the cross and leave them in God hands. As she crept up to the front, stood in line anticipating the amazing encouragement and prayers she would receive from her Pastor, she was about to burst. When it was her turn, she just wept and listened to the Pastor say, "GROW just GROW".
I write about this because truly that is what life is all about. We are expected to grow closer to Him each day as we trust, hold tight and pass along grace to others. You do not have the one situation that God cannot fix! He is the divine Physician and is able to fix, repair, mend and yes, change anything! Whatever your current situation is, (big or small), lay it down, surrender it to Him; trusting in His divine power and presence and plan. Today marks the beginning of new growth!
So, I pass along some truth for you all today, GROW, just GROW! Many blessings, and for those of you in Charlotte, enjoy the rain as it falls on our soil as if God himself was nourishing your soil for the growth ahead!!
Denise
A woman in one of my small groups (TLC) told me of a story and I'd like to share it with you. She grew up always feeling different, small and a bit "behind the scenes" as she puts it. She never wanted to be the one people saw. As an adult, she kept wondering why she couldn't overcome her struggle with weight and her identity as it related to her weight. She kept saying, "All I want to do is shrink!" One Easter Sunday her Pastor invited people to come forward and nail their burdens to the cross and leave them in God hands. As she crept up to the front, stood in line anticipating the amazing encouragement and prayers she would receive from her Pastor, she was about to burst. When it was her turn, she just wept and listened to the Pastor say, "GROW just GROW".
I write about this because truly that is what life is all about. We are expected to grow closer to Him each day as we trust, hold tight and pass along grace to others. You do not have the one situation that God cannot fix! He is the divine Physician and is able to fix, repair, mend and yes, change anything! Whatever your current situation is, (big or small), lay it down, surrender it to Him; trusting in His divine power and presence and plan. Today marks the beginning of new growth!
So, I pass along some truth for you all today, GROW, just GROW! Many blessings, and for those of you in Charlotte, enjoy the rain as it falls on our soil as if God himself was nourishing your soil for the growth ahead!!
Denise
Sunday, February 24, 2008
A prayer for my friends
Lord, I believe you when you say you hear all prayers and love each one of your children. So, I am sending up prayers for my family and friends.
May each one of us meet you this week, face to face, heart to heart and in truth and authenticity. May we have a glimpse of your constant presence and have the chance to be drawn closer to you. May you grant peace where it is needed, send instruction and gentle reminders for us to listen and obey your ways over our own. Please grant mercy to us all, as we need you Lord. May Your strength be revealed in our weaknesses and may we be amazed by your plans you have for our lives. Lord, please give us the strength to walk and trust in your plans. Increase our trust Lord, as your ways are not our ways and they are always right. May we follow you and not be swept away by the ways of this world! Praise you Father for who you are! The same today as you always were! In the name of Jesus I pray and trust, AMEN.
Have a great week and let me know of the ways the Lord amazes you this week! I will do the same my friends!
Blessings, D
May each one of us meet you this week, face to face, heart to heart and in truth and authenticity. May we have a glimpse of your constant presence and have the chance to be drawn closer to you. May you grant peace where it is needed, send instruction and gentle reminders for us to listen and obey your ways over our own. Please grant mercy to us all, as we need you Lord. May Your strength be revealed in our weaknesses and may we be amazed by your plans you have for our lives. Lord, please give us the strength to walk and trust in your plans. Increase our trust Lord, as your ways are not our ways and they are always right. May we follow you and not be swept away by the ways of this world! Praise you Father for who you are! The same today as you always were! In the name of Jesus I pray and trust, AMEN.
Have a great week and let me know of the ways the Lord amazes you this week! I will do the same my friends!
Blessings, D
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
The people who use their gifts
Today, I had the crazy fun of racing to and from with great expectation of the next stop. Wednesday's seem to be my most hectic of days, yet I love them. Here is a glimpse of the day's schedule, as I write it please know this is just a way to make my final points, so hang with me here.
* Wake up at 5:30am for QT with kenny, coffee and the Lord.
* Load the first of many more loads of laundry for the day.
* 7am drive boys to CCS (30 mins. both ways) home at 8:15am
* Unload laundry to dryer then reload washer.
* Barn chores until 9:15am
* Shower because I am groooowssse and it is my New Years Resolution for 2008 to not be constantly stinky. It's either the gym or the barn; both do nothing for the resolution.
* Leave for Fab 5 Bible Study and celebration LLG's B-day. Cake was consumed with no guilt!
* Walk with Angie for 30 mins so that I am sane the rest of the day
* unhook bike rack from car, hook up hitch and horse trailer.
* Clean up Decaza and haul him to She Rose Farm by 2:00pm
* Drive to CCS to pick up boys then returen to Shea Rose Farm (1hr round trip) for horseback riding lessons for Colton.
* Haul home, unhook, muck, lunge both horses (PIPER and RED) then feed my babies (all 9).
* Make some kind of nutritious dinner then race Hunter to soccer practice at 7-8:30pm.
OK, so Kenny my sweet hubby took Hunter to practice tonight because he had "DATE NIGHT" with Colton and this was on thier way! OH, HOW I LOVE HIM!
WHEW, this was quite a day! I just love this day but it can be a bit mentally and physically challenging. While racing around my scheduled filled day, I had the most amazing glimpse into how God uses whatever and whomever He chooses to further His kingdom. It struck me while I watched the 6 kids talk on top of each other before mounting their horses. These kids were struck with so much excitement because there was a new horse at the barn and the wind was whipping around the farm as if to say today will be quite a ride.
Carol, the instructor and owner of Shea Rose Farm, caught the kids attention long enough to remind them to be serious and respect their surroundings. I on the other hand almost said, "shut it and mount it", but I restrained my impulses. Nonetheless, the kids went to the ring and had an awesome lesson. Carol later told me she felt like Decaza was too big and too trained for Colton. Her heart is for not only Colton but also for Decaza. I believe there must be a team when training and this was an unmatched team due to the HUGE gap in their experience. Isn't this how we could approach the Lord and our relationship with Him each day?!
Mine goes something like this. "Lord, you are so much wiser, so much more than I can fathom yet in total control of my life. Your ways are not my ways, yet you seem to understand everything about me and my surroundings. May the training I am experienceing right now give you greater glory, increase my faith and draw me closer to You."
I was reminded of Romans 5:3-7 today. This passage is about perseverance, character developement and hope. I clung to these verses during our 3 misscarriages and today the Lord reminded me of the power in this philosophy of life. May we all cling to His power, His team, His character and live in the hope of our faith which will not dissapoint us!
I pray each of you reading this will press on with Christ as He leads, instructs and directs each of you in the way you should go. Have ears to hear, eyes to see and time to listen, it will be all good in the end and that is a promise I trust!
I am off to the Mountains with my best friend Angie tomorrow for what we hope to be a ski weekend. Want to join us as we climb mountains, sit by fires and talk until we cannot speak any longer? I just know we will be looking for God among His beautiful creations. I challenge you to do the same!
Love to all .... D
* Wake up at 5:30am for QT with kenny, coffee and the Lord.
* Load the first of many more loads of laundry for the day.
* 7am drive boys to CCS (30 mins. both ways) home at 8:15am
* Unload laundry to dryer then reload washer.
* Barn chores until 9:15am
* Shower because I am groooowssse and it is my New Years Resolution for 2008 to not be constantly stinky. It's either the gym or the barn; both do nothing for the resolution.
* Leave for Fab 5 Bible Study and celebration LLG's B-day. Cake was consumed with no guilt!
* Walk with Angie for 30 mins so that I am sane the rest of the day
* unhook bike rack from car, hook up hitch and horse trailer.
* Clean up Decaza and haul him to She Rose Farm by 2:00pm
* Drive to CCS to pick up boys then returen to Shea Rose Farm (1hr round trip) for horseback riding lessons for Colton.
* Haul home, unhook, muck, lunge both horses (PIPER and RED) then feed my babies (all 9).
* Make some kind of nutritious dinner then race Hunter to soccer practice at 7-8:30pm.
OK, so Kenny my sweet hubby took Hunter to practice tonight because he had "DATE NIGHT" with Colton and this was on thier way! OH, HOW I LOVE HIM!
WHEW, this was quite a day! I just love this day but it can be a bit mentally and physically challenging. While racing around my scheduled filled day, I had the most amazing glimpse into how God uses whatever and whomever He chooses to further His kingdom. It struck me while I watched the 6 kids talk on top of each other before mounting their horses. These kids were struck with so much excitement because there was a new horse at the barn and the wind was whipping around the farm as if to say today will be quite a ride.
Carol, the instructor and owner of Shea Rose Farm, caught the kids attention long enough to remind them to be serious and respect their surroundings. I on the other hand almost said, "shut it and mount it", but I restrained my impulses. Nonetheless, the kids went to the ring and had an awesome lesson. Carol later told me she felt like Decaza was too big and too trained for Colton. Her heart is for not only Colton but also for Decaza. I believe there must be a team when training and this was an unmatched team due to the HUGE gap in their experience. Isn't this how we could approach the Lord and our relationship with Him each day?!
Mine goes something like this. "Lord, you are so much wiser, so much more than I can fathom yet in total control of my life. Your ways are not my ways, yet you seem to understand everything about me and my surroundings. May the training I am experienceing right now give you greater glory, increase my faith and draw me closer to You."
I was reminded of Romans 5:3-7 today. This passage is about perseverance, character developement and hope. I clung to these verses during our 3 misscarriages and today the Lord reminded me of the power in this philosophy of life. May we all cling to His power, His team, His character and live in the hope of our faith which will not dissapoint us!
I pray each of you reading this will press on with Christ as He leads, instructs and directs each of you in the way you should go. Have ears to hear, eyes to see and time to listen, it will be all good in the end and that is a promise I trust!
I am off to the Mountains with my best friend Angie tomorrow for what we hope to be a ski weekend. Want to join us as we climb mountains, sit by fires and talk until we cannot speak any longer? I just know we will be looking for God among His beautiful creations. I challenge you to do the same!
Love to all .... D
Saturday, February 16, 2008
And All The People Said,....
So, you really do read this blog of mine! You asked how it went so I'll tell ya...... Here is the update from my experience at the Harvest Center.
I was super excited and just threw on my jeans and a long sleeve black T-shirt and off I went with clothes, shoes, and games in hand.
Once I arrived at the Harvest House, my heart was pounding at the thoughts of would I be safe, do I smile at these men surrounding my car, should I be so bold to sound the "lock" beeping noise on my car... OK, voices shut up and just do it Denise, God said he'd be with this whitie get in there.
When I walked into the HC, Sister Rosa saw me immediately, as I sortof stood out. She yelled to me, "CULINARY, YOU DID COME". When I met her I told her I loved to cook and would come work, obviously, a lot of people must say that because she was suprised at my comings.
She toured me around the center, all the while touching people, ordering them to do this and that, and finally showed me the kitchen. Today, they were having a REVIVAL, and I was to prepare a fish fry like none other. NOW wait a min. Sista, I am a Health Educator, I don't fry fish much less any other food, unless I am pregnant. The lady next to me reminded me, that this is their world not mine.. fry baby fry! I was so glad I wore a long sleeve T-shirt! The apron I wore was almost in shreds by the time I left, next time I'm bringing my own. I asked Sister Rosa how I would know when the fish was ready to come out of the oil, and her response still makes me laugh, even as I write it to you. "The Lord will tell you when it's ready, He'll tell ya, He always provides". Around 400 pieces of fish later and lots of broken gringa style Spanish conversations with my co-chef Fredrico, I thanked the Lord for giving me this amazing opportunity and I cannot wait to go back this Tues!
As I prepared and then served the fish, I kept looking in the eyes of these men, women, teens, and little children and I kept hearing the Lord's words... "The last will be first in my kingdom". I even told this one woman, Martha, as she looked at me with tears in her eyes and asked me to pray with her, while she cried, "I have really screwed up haven't I". I just said, "The Lord, loves you Martha, and He knows your name". I hope to see her next week, as she was my age and it really struck me. In my quiet moments, I have prayed with words I don't completly understand, as I don't know exactly what to pray for Martha; Oh, that she'll get off drugs, get a life, listen to truth, etc... OR, maybe, that she will believe God not just believe in God.
So, there you have my 4 hr. experience in the lives of the homeless, I hope to tell many stories abount my new friends.
Have an awesome week, and remember to love freely and honestly, as God loved us first!
Blessings, D
I was super excited and just threw on my jeans and a long sleeve black T-shirt and off I went with clothes, shoes, and games in hand.
Once I arrived at the Harvest House, my heart was pounding at the thoughts of would I be safe, do I smile at these men surrounding my car, should I be so bold to sound the "lock" beeping noise on my car... OK, voices shut up and just do it Denise, God said he'd be with this whitie get in there.
When I walked into the HC, Sister Rosa saw me immediately, as I sortof stood out. She yelled to me, "CULINARY, YOU DID COME". When I met her I told her I loved to cook and would come work, obviously, a lot of people must say that because she was suprised at my comings.
She toured me around the center, all the while touching people, ordering them to do this and that, and finally showed me the kitchen. Today, they were having a REVIVAL, and I was to prepare a fish fry like none other. NOW wait a min. Sista, I am a Health Educator, I don't fry fish much less any other food, unless I am pregnant. The lady next to me reminded me, that this is their world not mine.. fry baby fry! I was so glad I wore a long sleeve T-shirt! The apron I wore was almost in shreds by the time I left, next time I'm bringing my own. I asked Sister Rosa how I would know when the fish was ready to come out of the oil, and her response still makes me laugh, even as I write it to you. "The Lord will tell you when it's ready, He'll tell ya, He always provides". Around 400 pieces of fish later and lots of broken gringa style Spanish conversations with my co-chef Fredrico, I thanked the Lord for giving me this amazing opportunity and I cannot wait to go back this Tues!
As I prepared and then served the fish, I kept looking in the eyes of these men, women, teens, and little children and I kept hearing the Lord's words... "The last will be first in my kingdom". I even told this one woman, Martha, as she looked at me with tears in her eyes and asked me to pray with her, while she cried, "I have really screwed up haven't I". I just said, "The Lord, loves you Martha, and He knows your name". I hope to see her next week, as she was my age and it really struck me. In my quiet moments, I have prayed with words I don't completly understand, as I don't know exactly what to pray for Martha; Oh, that she'll get off drugs, get a life, listen to truth, etc... OR, maybe, that she will believe God not just believe in God.
So, there you have my 4 hr. experience in the lives of the homeless, I hope to tell many stories abount my new friends.
Have an awesome week, and remember to love freely and honestly, as God loved us first!
Blessings, D
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
Surely I am with you always
I woke up so excited to get this day going. You see, I am going to the Harvest Center today to serve these wonderful homeless people. I cannot wait to cook in that commercial kitchen and chop or clean or whatever task they may have me do, I am ready. I have been anticipating this day since last Tues. meeting.
Now that I have had my coffee and had time to think (it is 2 hrs. later and I am jacked up on caffein) I am second guessing my service. My thoughts raced a bit like this....
I had better be very quiet today. Do I say hello to each of them, do I look them in the eye to give them a sense of dignity?
What to wear; do I wear my ring, do I wear my tennis shoes, should I bring the men's and women's clothes and games that I have been gathering today or do I wait for my 2nd visit?
Maybe this isn't for me, maybe I just want to serve and should find another avenue.
Then the Lord showed me His word. Denise, "surely I am with you (and with them) always, to the very end of the age"Matthew 28:20. I am asking you Denise to go, I have placed this on your heart, just go and know I am with you and I am with them. I the Lord will guide you always: I will satisfy... Is. 58:11 don't think you will do anything Denise just go.
So off I go and I cannot wait! Please join me in prayer for the countless homeless men, women and children in Charlotte. May they know the peace and warmth of the Lord today and may that be enough for today! D
Now that I have had my coffee and had time to think (it is 2 hrs. later and I am jacked up on caffein) I am second guessing my service. My thoughts raced a bit like this....
I had better be very quiet today. Do I say hello to each of them, do I look them in the eye to give them a sense of dignity?
What to wear; do I wear my ring, do I wear my tennis shoes, should I bring the men's and women's clothes and games that I have been gathering today or do I wait for my 2nd visit?
Maybe this isn't for me, maybe I just want to serve and should find another avenue.
Then the Lord showed me His word. Denise, "surely I am with you (and with them) always, to the very end of the age"Matthew 28:20. I am asking you Denise to go, I have placed this on your heart, just go and know I am with you and I am with them. I the Lord will guide you always: I will satisfy... Is. 58:11 don't think you will do anything Denise just go.
So off I go and I cannot wait! Please join me in prayer for the countless homeless men, women and children in Charlotte. May they know the peace and warmth of the Lord today and may that be enough for today! D
Monday, February 11, 2008
Truth and Grace to you all
I really have no great inspiration for today's blog. I read in the book of John today and listened to the "message" version speak to me as if Jesus himself was standing next to me speaking Denise style diction. Ah the words of Jesus, spoken in modern day text. Today, I have decided, will be modern day speaking. Today, I will speak Denise style. I won't think too much, I will speak loud, bold and truthful. I will speak to my surroundings as if Jesus was standing right there with me, hangin' out in South Charlotte.
Wouldn't that be great and so refreshing if each of us spoke words and truths as if Jesus himself was standing right next to you?! I believe Jesus was not only bold but also very fun to be with. He issued grace and truth very carefully. Jesus was the type of guy whom you just wanted to hang out with, eat a meal with, go to get a mani/pedi with, roast marshmallows with into the night. Jesus was my type of guy. I don't think I could have hung out with him into the wee hrs. of the night though, as I crash at the strike of 11pm; I just never can make it past then! I'd be the one he'd say, "Denise, can't you even stay up for me ?" "Well, no Jesus, I cannot, if you would have started praying earlier, this 3 hr. deal would have been done before 11 Jesus" Then he'd insert grace and say, sleep well Denise, I will deal with you in the morning, you'll see".
I'd like to try inserting grace and truth in the same sentence today. I want to be so real and honest as I travel the day ahead, it might sound a bit like the following ......
"Children, wake up, get dressed, eat, get in the car, for today is the day the Lord has made, get movin'! Ah, but before you leave, remember to clean the kitchen and make your beds, because, to whom much has been given much is required" Vamos!"
"Hey Kenny, you look hot today, and I thank God for you! May you have an awesome day and don't forget to make a few deposites into my emotional bank account too.... Have a great day hunny!"
"Goodmorning my sweet animals, You all remind me of Jesus' words regarding worry. God has reminded me that He clothes, feeds and cares for the birds and he will do the same for me and to never worry about anything! So great to see each of you today!"
"Hi my dear Fab 5, I admit, I sometimes don't want to come to group, but Jesus has reminded me that when 2 or more are gathered He honors these prayers. He has reminded me of the need for community and fellowship and I really need you guys! Let's get down and get real and pray more please!"
So, these are a few of my initial thoughts to start this week. Think about all of the truths you know.... there are so many, try and insert them into every situation you face this week. Also, pray to eliminate the lies you entertain in that head of yours, just insert truth so that you will live a life as God intends you to live. Truth and grace to each of you, may it be a wonderful, authentic and Christ filled week!
Love to ya, D
Wouldn't that be great and so refreshing if each of us spoke words and truths as if Jesus himself was standing right next to you?! I believe Jesus was not only bold but also very fun to be with. He issued grace and truth very carefully. Jesus was the type of guy whom you just wanted to hang out with, eat a meal with, go to get a mani/pedi with, roast marshmallows with into the night. Jesus was my type of guy. I don't think I could have hung out with him into the wee hrs. of the night though, as I crash at the strike of 11pm; I just never can make it past then! I'd be the one he'd say, "Denise, can't you even stay up for me ?" "Well, no Jesus, I cannot, if you would have started praying earlier, this 3 hr. deal would have been done before 11 Jesus" Then he'd insert grace and say, sleep well Denise, I will deal with you in the morning, you'll see".
I'd like to try inserting grace and truth in the same sentence today. I want to be so real and honest as I travel the day ahead, it might sound a bit like the following ......
"Children, wake up, get dressed, eat, get in the car, for today is the day the Lord has made, get movin'! Ah, but before you leave, remember to clean the kitchen and make your beds, because, to whom much has been given much is required" Vamos!"
"Hey Kenny, you look hot today, and I thank God for you! May you have an awesome day and don't forget to make a few deposites into my emotional bank account too.... Have a great day hunny!"
"Goodmorning my sweet animals, You all remind me of Jesus' words regarding worry. God has reminded me that He clothes, feeds and cares for the birds and he will do the same for me and to never worry about anything! So great to see each of you today!"
"Hi my dear Fab 5, I admit, I sometimes don't want to come to group, but Jesus has reminded me that when 2 or more are gathered He honors these prayers. He has reminded me of the need for community and fellowship and I really need you guys! Let's get down and get real and pray more please!"
So, these are a few of my initial thoughts to start this week. Think about all of the truths you know.... there are so many, try and insert them into every situation you face this week. Also, pray to eliminate the lies you entertain in that head of yours, just insert truth so that you will live a life as God intends you to live. Truth and grace to each of you, may it be a wonderful, authentic and Christ filled week!
Love to ya, D
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
What is that?
I was so excited to go for a walk today with my previous boss and long time friend Kathy Chavez. What a walk through memory lane. Kat and I used to walk 3-4 times a week just to get away from always being "on stage" while at the Y, and today was no different. We walked and talked and never missed a beat in the fast paced conversation women love to have. Ya know, menopause, weight issues, kids, animals, God and men .... what more is there to tallk about?
The reason I write about this is because as we ran through the rain, conversing about life, we passed these guys who had dirty marks clearly between their eyes and it indicated to me it was there by no mistake. The marks on their foreheads were there as a reminder of the fire Jesus went through, yet unburned by those flames, for each of us. May we be brought to the flames of life yet never burned by them. May the Lord deliver each of us through the fires we face each day.
You clearly can keep going despite what is before you! Please remember to wear the protective gear He provides. (Eph. 6 The Full Armor of God) and run with endurance as if it was your last race.
Denise
The reason I write about this is because as we ran through the rain, conversing about life, we passed these guys who had dirty marks clearly between their eyes and it indicated to me it was there by no mistake. The marks on their foreheads were there as a reminder of the fire Jesus went through, yet unburned by those flames, for each of us. May we be brought to the flames of life yet never burned by them. May the Lord deliver each of us through the fires we face each day.
You clearly can keep going despite what is before you! Please remember to wear the protective gear He provides. (Eph. 6 The Full Armor of God) and run with endurance as if it was your last race.
May this season of Lent bring love, thankfulness, mercy and grace to your lives. I choose the next 40 days of giving to God my current burden drowned in prayer... what will you do with these days ahead?
Denise
Pressing on in victory!
I have been swamped with e-mails and phone calls this week with women needing prayer and a shot of encouragement. I believe this is all part of God's great web, seeing that just last week I was given a great devotional thought while watching my son race his horse in the VICTORY lap at Shea Rose Farm. Actually,I watched 6 kids race their horses around the ring for their final victory lap. This was at the end of a great horseback riding lesson. These kids flung their hands up in the air as if they just won the Kentucky Derby. The horses were tired yet they picked up the pace and finished the lap. AHHHH do you see the analogy? Just when we are feeling as if we "can't do it anymore", or we are tired, short tempered, bummed over our weight, or sad over our circumstances; remember, we can go another lap. There is a God who is able, stronger than your circumstances, and who will lead you in a triumphal procession (2 Cor. 2:14). I think of a "triumphal procession" a bit like a concert. My VICTORY lap sounds like a mix of Sting, Mercy Me, U2 and Sheryl Crow all in perfect harmony and tempo! What does your procession sound like? If it is a bit like elevator music then press the button to the next floor and GET OFF, and take the stairs. Climb up, look up, pray and keep going, it is all worth it!
The last part of this story is what happened after the Victory Lap. The kids all started talking to each other, comparing times, laughing at the day and gabbing all the way back to the barn. You see, we need each other and we need to be real with each other. Use the people in your life as support and as a means to get you on the path of healthy thinking.
I pray each one of you reading this blog remembers a very important truth. We do not fight FOR victory, we fight FROM victory. Think on that! Take a VICTORY LAP today and PRESS ON as you press into Him!
He wanted me to remind you of His strength and presence, have a great day!
Denise
The last part of this story is what happened after the Victory Lap. The kids all started talking to each other, comparing times, laughing at the day and gabbing all the way back to the barn. You see, we need each other and we need to be real with each other. Use the people in your life as support and as a means to get you on the path of healthy thinking.
I pray each one of you reading this blog remembers a very important truth. We do not fight FOR victory, we fight FROM victory. Think on that! Take a VICTORY LAP today and PRESS ON as you press into Him!
He wanted me to remind you of His strength and presence, have a great day!
Denise
Thursday, January 31, 2008
I love that saying!
I believe my life is the best material for a comedy series. There is no need for writers, they can remain on strike, just come film "The Life and Day With The Hammond Family" and that should do it. So, I will wait to write about what I saw yesterday at Shea Rose Farm;(but I will because it was awesome), my neice and son ride horses at this farm. I will begin today by allowing you to ride to school with Hunter, Colton, Buddy, my black lab rescue dog and myself. Everyday is a fire drill getting out the door by 7am and to school by 7:45am. It has actually become quite normal our insanity in the morning and today was no different. As we rushed to the car, I asked my dog Buddy if he'd like to go for a ride and with no hesitation he jumped into my truck, ate Hunter's cereal bar and off we went. After 20 mins of riding in Charlotte traffic I hear a loud yell, "BUDDY STOP" from my back seat. Hunter begins screaming ,"he's peeing" Colton is laughing and out of his seat with hopes of not becoming the victim to this disgusting event. Hunter yells, "get me some wipes", so I throw back the last 3 napkins I had in my car and pull over to the nearest side street which has a large field, next to a house. I fling open my door and Buddy jumps out of the car and continues his trail of pee onto another neighbor's property. The owner comes out a bit dismayed, seeing it is only 7:30am. She tries to catch my dog who is lifting his leg on every single bush in her yard.... she lunges forward trying to catch him and falls on her brick stairs.... now, I have to say, I am laughing now as I write this, but OH, you should have heard the apologies spitting out of my mouth. She just gasped and looked with shoock at me as I ran thru her yard trying to catch my dog in slippers and PJ's. Once I caught him she just waved me away without a word as if to say, "be gone with your red-neck self in your pee ridden car" So, once we were all back in my truck, Hunter is yelling to me, that he is NOT going to school this way.... Colton is actually laughing and chanting "he actually peed on my pants".... Colton some how thinks this is a badge of honor or something. So, once we arrive at CCS, I am laughing and telling them to have a great day as if this never happened. I can hear it now, "man my mom was so fried, she used to make us go to school with pee on our clothes" Do you think I am damaging them for life?
Well, I hesitate to tell them my favotrite saying growing up, but I feel the need to share it with at least Hunter. Growing up in Ohio, the word "piss" was so commonly used that I never realized it just may not be a nice word. Admittedly, I use it often when there are no children around. The syaing goes like this, "It is better to be Pissed off than Pissed on" Now, I know why! I am sure Hunter will agree with me!
Have a great day, and when you feel the urge to laugh, remember there is plenty more where that came from! Come join the insanity anytime you feel the need to laugh!
Love to all, Denise
Well, I hesitate to tell them my favotrite saying growing up, but I feel the need to share it with at least Hunter. Growing up in Ohio, the word "piss" was so commonly used that I never realized it just may not be a nice word. Admittedly, I use it often when there are no children around. The syaing goes like this, "It is better to be Pissed off than Pissed on" Now, I know why! I am sure Hunter will agree with me!
Have a great day, and when you feel the urge to laugh, remember there is plenty more where that came from! Come join the insanity anytime you feel the need to laugh!
Love to all, Denise
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
The best coffee
I am seriously in a moment of bliss. I have just had the very best coffee ever. I don't know if it was the combo. of a lit fire, a quiet morning, sleepy dogs and kids, the rain falling outside, but my coffee this morning beat all other days!
This reminds me of that SQUEEZE song, "Black Cofee in Bed" I loved that song! I just may go listen to it while I wake up my boys!Yes, that is what I am going to do... thanks to my sister-in-law, Shonda, I have it on my i-pod. Have a great day and look for the simple joys all around you today! I will meet anyone today for another cup say around 2pm... I will need another jolt around then. Love to all, D
This reminds me of that SQUEEZE song, "Black Cofee in Bed" I loved that song! I just may go listen to it while I wake up my boys!Yes, that is what I am going to do... thanks to my sister-in-law, Shonda, I have it on my i-pod. Have a great day and look for the simple joys all around you today! I will meet anyone today for another cup say around 2pm... I will need another jolt around then. Love to all, D
Monday, January 28, 2008
Let the SON shine
I love NC weather. Even when it is cold outside the weather changes so quickly that we have days like today to warm our insides in order to withstand the days unlike today. The weekend was filled with bon fires, hiking, relaxing, speaking at church and a soccer tournament. As all of us prepared for this weekend God decided to show up in many ways. First, God asked us to trust Hunter into His safety as he traveled to Savannah, Ga. for a tournament with another team who needed a goalie. Secondly, God asked me to step aside and allow Him to speak to these Middle School students and for the first time, I saw such authenticity in teenagers, that it even blew them away. God wants us all to get a glimpse every now and then of what our heart truly feels. There is such a yearning within all of us, to be filled by His sustaining nourishment and God gave us a seven course meal on Sun.
Lastly, as we sat around the bon fire and burned stuff... boys are so weird, we all felt a sense of constant warmth in the cold night. That's when God reminded me that no matter what, I need to remember that He is always close, always ready and able and His constant fire will give me energy and perseverance to go another mile. I say this because there are times when I can run forever and times when I feel so tired or emotionally exhausted that I just want to isolate myself from society. I just want to scream ENOUGH ALREADY I AM OUTTA HERE!
I believe in isolation Satan can do a number on a person if it is done with the wrong intentions or as a means of escape. That is when true authenticity and close relationships step in and adjust my thinking. May you have the warmth of that bon fire, truth sent to you from the SON as it shines on your face and authentic conversations with those you call friends!
Press on and hey, have an awesome meal sometime this week with a teenager... it will enlighten you! Blessings, Denise
Lastly, as we sat around the bon fire and burned stuff... boys are so weird, we all felt a sense of constant warmth in the cold night. That's when God reminded me that no matter what, I need to remember that He is always close, always ready and able and His constant fire will give me energy and perseverance to go another mile. I say this because there are times when I can run forever and times when I feel so tired or emotionally exhausted that I just want to isolate myself from society. I just want to scream ENOUGH ALREADY I AM OUTTA HERE!
I believe in isolation Satan can do a number on a person if it is done with the wrong intentions or as a means of escape. That is when true authenticity and close relationships step in and adjust my thinking. May you have the warmth of that bon fire, truth sent to you from the SON as it shines on your face and authentic conversations with those you call friends!
Press on and hey, have an awesome meal sometime this week with a teenager... it will enlighten you! Blessings, Denise
Friday, January 25, 2008
No Complaints
I am so excited that it is FRIDAY. Oh the plans our family has for this weekend! Dinner and game night with friends, riding the horses and cleaning the barn, a hopeful bon-fire to burn the fallen tree and the cardboard boxes still lingering after Christmas, what a great weekend this will be. I truly have nothing to complain about! So, why do I hear a small pestering voice in my head complaining over the commute to school or the lack of physical exertion I did today at the Y, or the constant dust in my house, the pressure to look better than I do etc.... etc.... SHUT UP and rejoice Denise! Well, I do rejoice and by getting the voices out of my head and in public eye, it helps to silence them. It also serves as a reminder that these little nuisances if left unchecked can fester and build into unnecessary evils! I have been given so much and I am truly thankful for each and every blessing and trial for that matter! In Luke 12:48 NIV it says, "From everyone who has been given much, much will be demanded" I believe in this passage the author wants me to hear that I have been given so much freedom and I must live it, and give it away. I challenge all of you who are reading these words to live your gift of grace and freedom by not complaining but instead rejoicing in each and every moment of this day! So off to the barn I go to break icy buckets and muck some manure.. ahhh isn't life great!
Blessings friends,
Denise
Thursday, January 24, 2008
Redemption in the permastain
So, you might be asking what a "permastain" is, so, I will tell you. Remember the burn in my floor from Colton's PIRO days of the past? Today, my wonderful Georje and team took my punch list of repairs and tackled the burn mark. Needless-to-say, (they can do anything I ask of them) the burn mark now looks like a knotty pine "KNOT" in my floor rather than a burn mark. This is a a stain of the past. I hesitated to remove the burn mark because I wanted it to be a reminder to Colton of what he did and the damage it caused. However, after really thinking of how God "remembers no more" our past sins, I felt compelled to remove the mark and set him free from guilt. It is a stain of the past! May this be a reminder of the similarity of God's redemtion and ability to open all prison gates to the land of freedom and redemtion. The stains which we so often try to remember, refer back to or mark ourselves with, are not from God. Maybe it is from our own pride or our rebellion to entering His courts of freedom..... But nonetheless, the gate is open, we just have to enter through it and not look back..........you all think about that, as I go kiss my PIRO before he slips off into dream world tonight!
Blessings friends, may you insert truth into every situation and live free and healthy tomorow!
Love to all - D
Blessings friends, may you insert truth into every situation and live free and healthy tomorow!
Love to all - D
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Let me tell you something, said Fire Marshal Bill
As I prepared for my speaking engagement this weekend, titled "Matches, play with fire get burned" I was searching for my opening. There has to be a catchy opening when speaking to 7-8th grade girls and boys ya know or they will put on their i-pods and tune me out. Today the Lord gave me my segue through the actions of my sweet piro, Colton. While I was in the garage for a quick moment, Colton lit his homemade torch and started to throw it out the door while my dog ran into him , launching the lit torch into the air on onto the hardwood floors .... emphasis on wood, burning a hole in the floor. Thankfully the gallon of water he threw on the floor was enough to put out the flames and clean my floor at the same time! Nobody including the dog was hurt, but at least I now have an opening story with pictures to get their attention.
Never a dull moment here at the Hammond Farm!
Monday, January 21, 2008
skiing in the frigged mtns.
What a blast we had skiing at Appalachian Ski Mtn. this weekend. Hunter totally has it and Colton, well, he is officially a shredder! A light bulb went off after the first 30mins. of bombing the slope with no brakes that there is a better way. Colton is now officially safe on the slopes and all can resume skiing! The snow came down, we were bundled with ski masks/goggles, gloves, hats and we had the best skiing yet. It is all about the proper equipment in order to have fun in the cold temps. When we left Boone Sun. night, it was 9 degrees and dropping. Oh, to be back at ASU; memories of walking through campus with only the slits of your eyes exposed were the talk of the ride home. It is amazing any of us were even the least bit worried about our appearance... nobody saw you anyway under all those heavy clothes. That reminds me to remind you that God knows your heart and is the true warmth of your soul. In 2 Samuel it says, "Man looks at the outside but God examines the heart". Get dressed in His armor today! Stay warm and enjoy the day the Lord has made! Denise
Thursday, January 17, 2008
What we have school?!
I looked outside to see the beautiful snow at 3:35am and went back to bed with a huge grin! At 5:30am, I checked the news and most schools were cancelled for the day, so I assumed CCS was closed as well and I went back to sleep excited my prediction was right. UNTIL, the phone call from Melsa at 6:40am rang us into reality, Charlotte Christian was in session and we had better get out the door! Can you hear the complaints from Hunter and Colton. Oh the rage and disappointment! So, here I sit by my computer, a bit wet from the barn yet I am not complaining because I have had 2 wonderful cups of coffee and just may have 1 more! In a bit, I am off to the gym to cycle with Angie and then back to school to hear of all the mutual complaints of how unfair my kids have it. Stop the madness, we are all so blessed!
Please pray for the many families right here in Charlotte and surrounding cities who are without heat and a home this winter. May we continue to lift up Tom Wheeler and the homeless ministry he is running. Endurance to him and his team!
Stay dry my fiends, D
Please pray for the many families right here in Charlotte and surrounding cities who are without heat and a home this winter. May we continue to lift up Tom Wheeler and the homeless ministry he is running. Endurance to him and his team!
Stay dry my fiends, D
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Baby it's cold outside
BURRR, you'd think after being raised in Ohio and attending school at ASU (where the cool go to school), I would love this weather.... but I do not. The only thing fun about the cold is skiing (Charlotte has no slopes) and watching my horses run wild because they feel frisky! Today, Hunter and I watched them run around the paddock, bucking and racing each other. Even Decaza joined in the fun. As for Decaza, he is healing very well and we rode him for the first time since March on Saturday. He was a bit tight but loosened up after 10 mins. We continue to pray for a full recovery and for him to join us on the trails come spring! His recovery draws such a parallel to our lives as believers in Christ. Have you ever noticed when it is cold outside or the weather is not what you'd order, the natural inclination is to retreat to some other place to find comfort. There are times when we go through trials and discouraging times only to find that in those times and difficulties is when we actually slow down enough and hear God speak. There are times when God allows certain events to take place that we do not know why but we have to trust that His ways are perfect and He is in the very circumstance that we are facing. Continue to move through the valley, you are never meant to camp out there, you must keep moving, listening, searching and trusting that He has your best interest in the palm of His hands. Decaza's circumstance seemed bad enough to the previous owner that she gave up hope in his recovery and changed course. In times of trouble is when we must remain steadfast, on course and never give up hope. In Hebrews 11 it defines faith as "being sure of what we hope for and certain for what we do not see". Press on, believe in God and remain fixed on faith in the one who is trustworthy! I trust in those promises and pray you will too. Stay warm and drink lots of coffee with the designer of the bean! I bet God has never been described that way before! Blessings, Denise
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
New beginnings
Welcome to my blog spot! Today has been a monumental day, as I have developed a blog spot and I bought the domain site www.denisehammond.com and intend on creating a web site for my speaking ministry as well as the TLC workbook! So keep an eye out for the development of this web site.
May you have an awesome week and remain focused on Christ!
Denise
May you have an awesome week and remain focused on Christ!
Denise
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